In this Friday Field Notes, Ryan explains why so many men have lost the ability to speak up for themselves and how cultural conditioning has silenced masculine confidence and clarity. He covers the cost of silence, how lack of self advocacy leads to resentment and instability, and why reclaiming your voice is a foundational leadership skill. Ryan also provides practical language men can use in relationships, work, friendships, and with themselves to rebuild confidence and assertiveness.

This episode is a direct challenge to the mindset that staying quiet keeps the peace. Ryan shows that speaking up is not selfish. It is responsible and necessary if you want to protect, provide, and preside for the people you care about.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 Intro
00:53 Why men lost their voice and the conditioning that caused it
03:02 The consequences of silence and suppressed needs
04:48 Self-advocacy is not selfish. It is a responsibility
06:55 The cost of silence and becoming a punching bag
10:22 How suppressed frustration shows up in destructive ways
12:34 Advocating early or resenting later
14:07 How to advocate in relationships
16:18 How to advocate at work
17:17 Advocacy with friends and brothers
17:55 Advocating with yourself and ending excuses
18:58 Clarity equals courage and consistency
19:51 The three-step framework for self-advocacy
23:38 How to communicate needs clearly
26:03 Holding the line and enforcing boundaries
28:23 Self-advocacy and leadership
30:53 Iron Council and the power of counsel from other men
32:38 Final call to action. Get your voice back

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